How to attract a girl/woman: my experience

First of all, I wanna tender apologies for sharing my personal experience.
With all humility this is not pride but a desire to help people who are feeling the way I use to fee.
Quickly am gonna give u some character traits that atracts women to men.

I want to state also that I have borrowed words from few writers around me.

Smile and hold eye contact. Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.

By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.

Relax your body language. You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly. A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?”. Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention

Keep your voice low and speak slowly. A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?”. Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Listen and give her your full attention.Women love a good listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.

Show your sense of humour. Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. As long as it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it 

Make her work for your attention. Use your body language to position yourself so she has to lean in to talk and fight for your attention. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time?”

Tell stories, and never brag. Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive!…I make lots of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”

f you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you’re successful and a man of status.

Show your desire for her. The desire of being desired by another man is extremely sexy for a girl. Unleash the beast! Be the man who goes after what he wants. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.

So now that you know the core traits and how to implement them into your interactions, it’s time to ask what the female dating experts think about attraction!

We had a lot of fun putting this interview together and would like to thank everyone who got involved! Be sure to visit the experts’ sites to learn how they can help you become better at dating.